our story

Two people, one shared compass.

We are the Macs, M.E. and J.A. MacDonald, easing into semi-retirement by going back to a kind of travel we knew when we were younger, only this time with better luggage, stronger opinions about WiFi, and less interest in rushing through anything. We are travelling slowly, staying longer, and trying to leave enough room for ordinary life to appear.

This is not a checklist trip, and it is not a race to stack up countries. We are not especially interested in collecting landmarks, sampling a place at speed, then calling it understood. What interests us more is what happens after the first few days, when the novelty wears off and the practical business of being somewhere takes over. The return trip to the market. The walk that starts to feel familiar. The weather that quietly decides the day. The pharmacy, the laundrette, the haircut, the badly timed grocery run, the question of where to buy shampoo, honey, or a decent loaf of bread. That is usually when a place starts to become legible.

We are doing this at a transition point in life: experienced enough to know roughly what we are getting into, young enough to deal with what goes wrong, and curious enough to keep going anyway. Semi-retirement, for us, is not a grand victory lap and not an escape from thought. J.A. tried full retirement once and found that it did not quite fit. There still needs to be something to puzzle over, build, observe, and learn from. So this life is part travel, part experiment, part second rhythm, and still too new for us to pretend we have tidy answers.

For years, Los Angeles was home. It was where work happened, where a decade of life accumulated, and where this next phase began to make sense. Now Poulsbo is our home base, where the boxes live, the mail goes, and family ties still have a fixed address. It is more administrative than romantic, though it is that too. It is a practical anchor, an emotional one, and, for part of the year, a reliably cold and wet reminder that home has its own weather.

How we travel is simple enough in principle and messier in practice. We usually move country to country, staying 3 to 4 weeks at a time. We rent flats, apartments, or Airbnbs rather than live out of hotels when we can help it. We book the outbound flight before entering a country, then try to line up the next stay while we are still in the one before it. The plans are sketched rather than fixed, usually one stop ahead, with enough structure to keep things moving and enough looseness to change our minds.

What we want from this way of travelling is not luxury exactly, though we are not interested in performative discomfort either. We need four walls, a roof, a kitchen, decent air conditioning when the climate calls for it, and internet solid enough that modern life does not collapse by breakfast. WiFi has already proved more emotionally important than either of us would have preferred to discover. Hot water, on the other hand, turned out to be rather more optional than expected, at least in the Philippines.

We are still learning what each of us notices first in a place. M.E. tends to register pace and colour, the general feel of a day, and the texture of how daily life is moving around her. J.A. notices food and infrastructure, whether the systems make sense, and how a place works once you try to live inside it instead of merely visiting it. Together, we have found that what makes a place start to fit is not spectacle but domesticity: cooking, laundry, food shopping, work calls, beard trims, nail appointments, pharmacy runs, and all the little practical errands that tourism often edits out.

Food matters a great deal, especially to J.A., and so do the small routines that travel oddly depends on. One of his long-standing habits, going back to work in East Africa at 20, is finding the ingredients for a familiar travelling breakfast and lunch rhythm: peanut butter, tiny bananas, honey, bread for sandwiches, and müsli for breakfast. The banana comparison is apparently international and ongoing. M.E. is still discovering which routines are becoming hers. That, too, is part of the project.

This site is where we keep the longer record. It began with friends, then became a way of documenting the experience for ourselves, and now perhaps for anyone curious about a slower, less polished, more everyday way of moving through the world. The map tracks the route. The posts hold what does not fit in a quick update: what surprised us, what we misunderstood, and what daily life actually felt like once we had been somewhere long enough to stop performing arrival.

We are not writing as authorities. We are visitors everywhere we go. The point is not to declare what a country is after a few weeks in one corner of it, but to record what we noticed, what challenged us, what we adapted to, and where our assumptions were wrong. This is simply a different mode of travel, one that trades speed for a closer look at how a place actually works.

We have only just started. Most of the larger questions, about home, routine, work, comfort, pace, and what this life becomes over time, are still open. That feels about right. This is an experiment, but a long-term and cheerful one. We are travelling slowly, paying attention, and seeing what kind of life can be made this way.

We have only just begun, and most of the larger questions are still open. That is part of the point. We are taking the long way round on purpose, and we are glad you are here at the beginning.